Marta shared her painful experience of dealing with her 12-year-old daughter, Rose, who has become increasingly cruel and disrespectful. Rose mocks her appearance, weight, and aging, even going so far as to snip off Marta’s ponytail during a video conference. Despite therapy and efforts from trusted adults, the behavior hasn’t stopped, and it’s severely damaging Marta’s confidence.
When Marta suggested sending Rose to boarding school to help break the cycle, her husband dismissed her idea harshly, telling her she was overreacting and that she should be more understanding. His response left Marta feeling betrayed and unsupported. Now, she faces not only her daughter’s cruelty but also a lack of empathy from her husband, which has caused her to question both her parenting and
her worth as a woman.
Feeling at a loss, Marta made the difficult decision to move forward with sending Rose to boarding school. She knew it was a drastic step, but she couldn’t continue to subject herself to the constant emotional abuse from her own child. Marta felt guilty for even considering it, but she knew it was the only way to protect herself and hopefully help Rose as well.
The process of finding the right boarding school was challenging, but Marta ultimately found one that she believed would provide the structure and support that Rose needed. The thought of being separated from her daughter was heart-wrenching, but Marta knew it was necessary for both of them to heal and move forward.
As the day approached for Rose to leave for boarding school, Marta felt a mix of emotions. She was relieved to have some space from the constant negativity in her home, but she also felt guilty for sending her daughter away. However, Marta knew that she needed to prioritize her own mental health and well-being.
In the weeks following Rose’s departure, Marta began to feel a sense of freedom and peace that she hadn’t experienced in a long time. She started to rebuild her confidence and rediscover her sense of self-worth. While she missed her daughter, she knew that this was the right decision for both of them.
Sending Rose to boarding school was not an easy choice, but it was a necessary one. Marta realized that she couldn’t continue to sacrifice her own well-being for the sake of her daughter’s behavior. By taking this step, Marta was able to reclaim her confidence as a woman and set boundaries that were necessary for her own happiness. She hoped that Rose would also find the support and guidance she needed to work through her issues and become a better person.
