I spoke before my brain caught up. “Think about your baby,” I said, loud enough for nearby tables to hear. For a second, the world seemed to freeze. Then she turned, eyes blazing, and shattered my self-righteous fantasy with one brutal line: “Are you an idiot? I’m not pregnant—I’m just wearing an oversized jacket.”

Heat flooded my face so fast I felt dizzy. Conversations paused, then pretended not to. I mumbled an apology that sounded pathetic even to me, suddenly fascinated by the scratches on my table, wishing I could crawl underneath it and never emerge. In my head, I’d been the brave stranger speaking up for a helpless child. In reality, I was just another person who assumed they knew someone else’s body, someone else’s story—and learned, in the most public way possible, how wrong that can be.