“But my horror would be… What if I have a heart attack tomorrow, and, God forbid, James’ mother, Kim, has a car crash and she’s taken too – and then James is on his own?”

“Then he’s a ward of the state and he goes where? We’d have no say in it.”He and Kim are hoping to “find somewhere we like where he can go now, while we’re still alive and healthy, that we can go and visit, and we can take him out sometimes.”

Colin continued, “We want him to find somewhere where he can have a full and happy life, where he feels connected.”

When James missed developmental