Public transport often sparks debates over priority seating. Recently, a story went viral of an elderly woman demanding a girl with a prosthetic leg give up her seat, claiming she wasn’t “disabled enough.”

The girl shared her experience: “I lost my left leg in an accident and use a prosthetic. While I can walk and run, balancing on a moving train is hard. I was sitting in a reserved seat when the woman told me to move. I explained I needed the seat, but she got upset, called the conductor, and insisted I leave. Tired of arguing, I rolled up my pant leg, showed my prosthetic, and refused to move. She turned red and got off at the next station.”

The story resonated with many disabled people who face similar challenges. One shared, “My husband uses crutches, but when seated, he looks fine. He’s been insulted for parking in disabled spots or using priority seating, until he stands and people realize. It’s sad we have to prove our disabilities before being believed.” Another added, “I’ve had leg surgeries and often face criticism for using disabled spots when my pain isn’t visible.”

These stories highlight the need for empathy and understanding, rather than forcing people to justify their conditions.

As the girl with the prosthetic leg reflected on the incident, she couldn’t shake the guilt she felt for not giving up her seat to the elderly woman. Despite knowing she needed the seat more than the woman, she couldn’t help but feel like she should have been more compassionate.

Many people in similar situations often struggle with feelings of guilt when advocating for themselves and their needs. It can be challenging to stand up for oneself, especially when faced with judgment and criticism from others. The pressure to justify one’s disability can take a toll on a person’s mental health and sense of self-worth.

It’s important for society to shift its mindset towards disabilities and prioritize empathy and understanding. People with hidden disabilities should not have to prove themselves to others in order to receive the accommodations they need. Everyone deserves to feel comfortable and supported in public spaces, regardless of their visible appearance or mobility.

The girl with the prosthetic leg hopes that sharing her story will raise awareness about the challenges faced by people with hidden disabilities. She encourages others to be more mindful of those around them and to show empathy towards individuals who may be struggling in ways that are not immediately apparent.

Moving forward, it is crucial for society to continue to advocate for inclusive and accessible spaces for all individuals. By fostering a culture of acceptance and understanding, we can create a more compassionate and supportive environment for people with disabilities. Let’s strive to be more kind and considerate towards one another, and to always remember that we never know the battles others may be facing.